M\u1ed9t nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u m\u1edbi cho th\u1ea5y c\u00e1c em \u1edf l\u1ee9a tu\u1ed5i thanh thi\u1ebfu ni\u00ean c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u anh ch\u1ecb em, th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n k\u00e9m h\u01a1n so v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed3ng trang l\u1ee9a trong nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u00edt con.<\/p>\n
Nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u xem x\u00e9t d\u1eef li\u1ec7u t\u1eeb tr\u1ebb em trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i trung h\u1ecdc \u1edf M\u1ef9 v\u00e0 Trung Qu\u1ed1c, \u0111\u1ec3 so s\u00e1nh gi\u1eefa quy m\u00f4 gia \u0111\u00ecnh l\u1edbn v\u00e0 nh\u1ecf.<\/p>\n
G\u1ea7n 19,000 tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i trung b\u00ecnh l\u00e0 14, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o ph\u00e2n t\u00edch. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u c\u0169ng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra r\u1eb1ng kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c gi\u1eefa anh ch\u1ecb em c\u00e0ng g\u1ea7n th\u00ec s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n c\u00e0ng k\u00e9m.<\/p>\n
C\u00e1c em \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1t c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 cho th\u1ea5y \u1edf Trung Qu\u1ed1c, tr\u1ebb em kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 anh ch\u1ecb em c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t; tr\u1ebb em \u1edf M\u1ef9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 anh ch\u1ecb em ho\u1eb7c ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n c\u0169ng t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u anh ch\u1ecb em. Kho\u1ea3ng c\u00e1ch tu\u1ed5i t\u00e1c gi\u1eefa anh ch\u1ecb em g\u1ea7n nhau qu\u00e1 l\u00e0m s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n tr\u1edf n\u00ean k\u00e9m h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
C\u00e1c t\u00e1c gi\u1ea3 nghi\u00ean c\u1ee9u k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn: Cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f4ng con th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 \u00edt ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ed1i m\u1eb7t v\u1edbi c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng trong nh\u00e0 h\u01a1n, so v\u1edbi cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 \u00edt con h\u01a1n. Anh ch\u1ecb em \u1edf s\u00e1t tu\u1ed5i nhau c\u1ea1nh tranh nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m t\u1eeb cha m\u1eb9. Ngo\u00e0i ra, nh\u1eefng \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh n\u0103m m\u1ed9t (l\u01a1n, nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n nhau 1 tu\u1ed5i) th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n k\u00e9m, nh\u1eefng b\u00e9 ra \u0111\u1eddi sau \u0111\u00f3, ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 nh\u1ecf anh\/ch\u1ecb m\u00ecnh v\u00e0i tu\u1ed5i, h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed1i li\u00ean h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o v\u1edbi s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n
Nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc Smriti Joshi cho r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t l\u00fd do cho nh\u1eefng ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 l\u00fd thuy\u1ebft g\u1eafn b\u00f3, cho th\u1ea5y quan h\u1ec7 s\u1edbm v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c s\u1ebd h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n v\u00e0 c\u1ea3m x\u00fac. C\u00f4 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch, anh ch\u1ecb em g\u1ea7n tu\u1ed5i nhau hay \u201cc\u00e0nh nanh\u201d nhau, do n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan t\u00e2m h\u01a1n, d\u00f9 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat, c\u0169ng khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh b\u1ecb b\u1ecf r\u01a1i, d\u1eabn \u0111\u1ebfn ganh t\u1ecb.<\/p>\n
Trong nh\u1eefng gia \u0111\u00ecnh \u0111\u00f4ng con, vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft c\u00e1c nhu c\u1ea7u g\u1eafn b\u00f3 c\u1ee7a con c\u00e1i r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng, nh\u1eb1m gi\u00fap c\u00e1c con th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau nhau h\u01a1n, nh\u1edd th\u1ebf gi\u1ea3m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c suy ngh\u0129 ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n
Trong m\u1ed9t gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u00f3 v\u00e0i b\u00e9 x\u1ea5p x\u1ec9 tu\u1ed5i nhau c\u0169ng d\u1ec5 x\u1ea3y ra nh\u1eefng v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn t\u00e2m l\u00fd c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb. C\u00e1c b\u00e9 th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nhau, trong khi ngu\u1ed3n l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 th\u00ec gi\u1edbi h\u1ea1n n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 quan t\u00e2m s\u00e2u s\u00e1t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a t\u1eebng b\u00e9. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y t\u1ea1o t\u00e2m l\u00fd b\u1ea5t an cho nh\u1eefng b\u00e9 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, th\u01b0\u01a1ng y\u00eau nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c anh, ch\u1ecb, em kh\u00e1c, m\u1eb7c d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n
(H\u00ecnh minh h\u1ecda: Hillshire Farm\/Unsplash)<\/p>\n
B\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u0111\u00f3, anh hay ch\u1ecb c\u00e1ch xa tu\u1ed5i h\u01a1n em c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thay b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u0103m lo cho em nh\u1ecf, l\u00e0m cho b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n v\u1eabn nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecnh y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u00e0 ch\u0103m s\u00f3c t\u1eeb gia \u0111\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
V\u1ecb tr\u00ed\u00a0c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi con c\u0169ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Anh, hay ch\u1ecb c\u1ea3 tuy l\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 quan t\u00e2m, ch\u0103m s\u00f3c c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, nh\u01b0ng khi c\u00f3 em, l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c\u00a0c\u00e1c em s\u1ebd c\u00f3 t\u00e2m l\u00fd ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea1nh tranh n\u1ebfu s\u1ed1 tu\u1ed5i qu\u00e1 g\u1ea7n nhau, ho\u1eb7c t\u1ef1 kho\u00e1c\u00a0cho m\u00ecnh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a\u00a0anh\/ch\u1ecb l\u1edbn khi em b\u00e9 nh\u1ecf h\u01a1n m\u00ecnh nhi\u1ec1u. C\u1ea3 hai tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ec1u t\u1ea1o \u00e1p l\u1ef1c cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi con l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi con \u1edf gi\u1eefa th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 t\u00e2m l\u00fd th\u1ea5y m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng quan tr\u1ecdng ho\u1eb7c b\u1ecb b\u1ecf qua b\u1edfi truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng \u201cquy\u1ec1n huynh th\u1ebf ph\u1ee5,\u201d khi anh ch\u1ecb l\u1edbn gi\u1eef vai tr\u00f2 qu\u00e1n xuy\u1ebfn thay cho cha m\u1eb9. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u0169ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn s\u1ef1\u00a0ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb khi l\u1edbn l\u00ean.<\/p>\n
Hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng quy lu\u1eadt tr\u00ean, c\u00e1c b\u1eadc cha m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f4ng con c\u1ea7n quan t\u00e2m \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe t\u00e2m th\u1ea7n t\u1ed1t nh\u1ea5t cho\u00a0m\u1ed7i \u0111\u1ee9a.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0 nh\u1eefng sinh v\u1eadt c\u00f3\u00a0m\u1ed1i\u00a0quan h\u1ec7 v\u00e0 th\u00f4ng qua nh\u1eefng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0y, ch\u00fang ta h\u1ecdc \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1ch v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh trong\u00a0th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, qu\u1ea3n l\u00fd c\u1ea3m x\u00fac c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u00e0y t\u1ecf nhu c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 mong mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean v\u00e0 c\u00f3 \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng nh\u1ea5t trong s\u1ed1 n\u00e0y l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a tr\u1ebb v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c\u00a0\u1edf giai \u0111o\u1ea1n\u00a0s\u1edbm\u00a0c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, v\u00ec b\u1ed9 n\u00e3o \u0111ang ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n theo \u0111\u00fang ngh\u0129a \u0111en \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i s\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u0103m s\u00f3c.<\/p>\n
S\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a cha m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00f3ng vai tr\u00f2 nh\u01b0 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng cho m\u00f4 h\u00ecnh ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng n\u1ed9i t\u00e2m, \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ebfn c\u00e1c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i trong t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u00e0 s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe tinh th\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a\u00a0tr\u1ebb em.<\/p>\n
(theo Yahoo Life)<\/p>\n
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