{"id":55270,"date":"2025-03-13T18:30:17","date_gmt":"2025-03-14T01:30:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/vietvalley.com\/tra-loi-nam-cau-hoi-de-cam-thay-yeu-nhau-hon\/"},"modified":"2025-03-13T18:30:17","modified_gmt":"2025-03-14T01:30:17","slug":"tra-loi-nam-cau-hoi-de-cam-thay-yeu-nhau-hon","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/vietvalley.com\/en\/tra-loi-nam-cau-hoi-de-cam-thay-yeu-nhau-hon\/","title":{"rendered":"Tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u0103m c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u00eau nhau h\u01a1n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u ngh\u0129 h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nhau, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c k\u1ec3 t\u00ean m\u00f3n \u0103n ho\u1eb7c phim y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u1ee7a nhau.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00e1c S\u0129 Mark Travers, nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc chuy\u00ean v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Cornell University v\u00e0 University of Colorado Boulder,\u00a0ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y \u1edf ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ho\u1eb7c th\u01b0\u1eddng b\u1ecf qua.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u0103m c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a hai b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng tr\u00ean m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i r\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e1ng ng\u01b0\u1ee1ng m\u1ed9.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u00e1c \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i t\u00e1c \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u00e2u d\u00e0i cho h\u1ecd?<\/p>\n<p>Ai c\u0169ng c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc g\u1eafn b\u00f3 v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n su\u1ed1t cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi n\u00f3i t\u1eed t\u1ebf t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m c\u0169, m\u1ed9t l\u1eddi khen t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 ho\u1eb7c m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb ch\u1ed1i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m sau t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh m\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u1eefng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1ng k\u1ec3 trong b\u1ee9c tranh to\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh, nh\u01b0ng l\u1ea1i thay \u0111\u1ed5i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n c\u00e1ch m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n v\u00e0 c\u00e1c kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y\u00a0hi\u1ebfm khi xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n trong cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n th\u00f4ng th\u01b0\u1eddng.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng k\u00fd \u1ee9c c\u1ed1t l\u00f5i n\u00e0y trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho th\u1ea5y hai b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n s\u00e2u s\u1eafc, qua \u0111\u00f3 nh\u00ecn th\u1ea5y nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch th\u1eadt s\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a nhau.<\/p>\n<p>H\u1ecd th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0m g\u00ec khi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y qu\u00e1 s\u1ee9c m\u00ecnh?<br \/>\nKhi cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n, m\u1ed7i ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang \u0111\u1ec3 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t tinh th\u1ea7n. M\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c ngh\u1ec9 vi\u1ec7c v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n \u0111\u1ebfn m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1 xa x\u00f4i, thanh b\u00ecnh. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u00ecnh dung ra nh\u1eefng phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 nghe kh\u00e1 \u0111\u1ed9c \u0111\u00e1o, m\u00e0 th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0y c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda \u0111\u1ec3 xem ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed1i ph\u00f3 v\u1edbi c\u0103ng th\u1eb3ng nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi, th\u00ec b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u1ea1t \u0111\u1ed9ng b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 c\u1ea3 hai ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn r\u1ea5t th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi nhau.<\/p>\n<p>H\u1ecd th\u1ea7m s\u1ee3 m\u1ed9t t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0o?<br \/>\nNg\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 s\u1ee3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111i d\u1ef1 c\u00e1c b\u1eefa ti\u1ec7c m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c n\u00f3i chuy\u1ec7n tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng?<\/p>\n<p>Bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec khi\u1ebfn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u201cb\u1edd vai\u201d h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 trong nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng th\u00ec h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 im l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 ch\u1ecbu \u0111\u1ef1ng. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1ebfn nh\u1eefng thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng tinh t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0o m\u00e0 h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n noi theo cha m\u1eb9?<br \/>\nCho d\u00f9 c\u00f3 th\u00edch hay kh\u00f4ng, con c\u00e1i lu\u00f4n th\u1eeba h\u01b0\u1edfng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 th\u00f3i quen nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u1eeb qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh nu\u00f4i d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5 huynh. V\u00ed d\u1ee5 nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ph\u1ea3n h\u1ed3i sao khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen v\u00ec t\u1eeb nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ebfn gi\u1edd h\u1ecd \u00edt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khen.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00ecnh y\u00eau \u0111ang g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u00f3i quen n\u00e0o, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng cu\u1ed9c tr\u00f2 chuy\u1ec7n \u201ckh\u00f3 n\u00f3i\u201d v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ed9ng l\u1ef1c gia \u0111\u00ecnh h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd ng\u00e0y nay. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng lo\u1ea1i chi ti\u1ebft m\u00e0 h\u1ea7u h\u1ebft m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i t\u00ecm hi\u1ec3u ho\u1eb7c \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n<p>Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0o m\u00e0 h\u1ecd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd khoe khoang?<br \/>\nM\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng th\u00e0nh t\u1ef1u m\u00e0 h\u1ecd th\u1ea7m t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f4ng b\u1ed1 v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y t\u1eebng gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t s\u1ee9c kh\u1ecfe, gia \u0111\u00ecnh ho\u1eb7c t\u00e0i ch\u00ednh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ai bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n may m\u1eafn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, t\u1ee9c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea5y c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ee7 an to\u00e0n \u0111\u1ec3 chia s\u1ebb nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129a nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. S\u1ef1 tin t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u00f3 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng qu\u00fd gi\u00e1 trong m\u1ed9t m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7.<\/p>\n<p>The post <a href=\"https:\/\/saigonnhonews.com\/mindfulness\/tra-loi-nam-cau-hoi-de-cam-thay-yeu-nhau-hon\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi n\u0103m c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u00eau nhau h\u01a1n<\/a> appeared first on <a href=\"https:\/\/saigonnhonews.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Saigon Nh\u1ecf<\/a>.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>H\u1ea7u h\u1ebft c\u00e1c c\u1eb7p t\u00ecnh nh\u00e2n \u0111\u1ec1u ngh\u0129 h\u1ecd hi\u1ec3u r\u00f5 nhau, nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n m\u1eadt c\u00f2n quan tr\u1ecdng h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 vi\u1ec7c k\u1ec3 t\u00ean m\u00f3n \u0103n ho\u1eb7c phim y\u00eau th\u00edch c\u1ee7a nhau. B\u00e1c S\u0129 Mark Travers, nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00fd h\u1ecdc chuy\u00ean v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 t\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea1i h\u1ecdc Cornell University v\u00e0 University of Colorado &hellip;<\/p>","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"fifu_image_url":"","fifu_image_alt":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[96],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-55270","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-behavioral-health"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/vietvalley.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55270","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/vietvalley.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/vietvalley.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vietvalley.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vietvalley.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=55270"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/vietvalley.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/55270\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/vietvalley.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=55270"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vietvalley.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=55270"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/vietvalley.com\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=55270"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}